i am a 22 years old girl who has a depressed boyfriend who is emotionally unstable I want to help him but I can’t control his emotional outbursts at times. He is even bringing me down. Won’t leave him because he has always been there for me and I love him very much. What should i do?
First of all if the issue of depression is serious then seek for medical help if you haven’t already or counselling. It is very necessary and after that the problem will slowly decrease. The second thing is as you informed you love him, be there for him at this time of crisis because these are the times that examines how strong your relationship is. However communication is a must so please talk to him about what you are feeling but in a sensitive way .If you really want to be with him then make sure you make him feel wanted and loved. It will help him realize that there are things/people who want him to be happy.